You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.
but honestly I just don’t care anymore. I don’t care about school, I don’t care that my mom is mad at me about not caring about school, I don’t care about half the people I’m surrounded by or what they think, and I definitely don’t care about how high school is set up nor the consequences of thinking that. I just feel like lately I’m walking around in a daze counting down the days until graduation and then until college. I’m so ready to start a new chapter in my life where people aren’t holding my hand and telling me what to do. Maybe that’s naive of my to say and “I don’t know what I’m talking about because I’m not in the least independent”, but I’m ready to figure out how to do things on my own and it doesn’t scare me that I might be going into this blindly.
Choosing the “right thing” to do is always more complicated than it seems. I mean what is the right thing to do anyway? Do you please everyone around you and risk your turmoil or do keep your sanity and risk being selfish? And why are people so expected to do the right thing when the situation itself is just so completely wrong? Would doing the right thing even make a difference? What if the right thing really turned into the wrong thing? Maybe sometimes saying nothing is the BEST thing to do, not necessarily the right thing. Why waste my breath?
Is posting pictures of yourself looking like a skank cool? I’m not exactly sure using the argument “I’m comfortable with myself” works because if you were, you wouldn’t look like that. And if you “don’t care what people think” of you then stop bitching/complaining when people do talk crap.
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I think it’s not only pitiful but hilarious when people are like “OMG you’re my best friend. Let’s hang!” but then as soon as that person walks away…”ew she’s such a whore”. You realize that you don’t look cool at all by doing that, not even to the people you are trying to impress, now they are just confused and you look like a fake skank.
I don’t understand why people talk like they are alone when there is a classroom full of 30 people surrounding them. I’m not really sure if “ignorance is bliss” really applies to this. I mean people whisper (not really) to their friend next to them about the biggest scandal and yet if they turned their head about 45 degrees they’d see that about 10 people sitting around them can hear their conversation. Not only that but it’s almost a garauntee that someone who is listening either knows the person you are talking about or knows someone who knows that person and the secret is out. I wish people would confront people more often too. I mean why not? You confront them and one of three things will happen: 1. You find out that it was a bunch of lies and there’s nothing to worry about (highly unlikely) 2. The person owns up to it and they look like a dirty biotch for about a day but atleast you still kind of respect them for being honest (possible) or 3. They’ll lie straight to your face and then there’s a huge fight and now the tables have turned and THEY look like a dirty lying skank instead of you (likely). Out of those three options, I don’t see anything that makes the confronter really look THAT bad.
I say either nut up or shut up. Make things interesting by saying something to someone’s face or do us all a favor and quit being fake.
The problem isn’t finding out where you are gonna go-its figuring out what you are gonna do once you get there
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Never forget that anticipation is an important part of life. Work’s important, family’s important, but without excitement, you have nothing. You’re cheating yourself if you refuse to enjoy what’s coming.
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“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you’ve known forever don’t see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.”
Everything about Nicholas Sparks makes me smile <3
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